Random midnight thoughts

I’ve been thingking about fairness and equality and how different these two concepts together. (This is not about feminism though) and off tangent from what I’ve been writing about lately ( you know crappy love story) sorry about that. I’ve been really negative but I’m beggining to be better again. (All the DUA Lipa soundtrack may rest for the moment) although lots of interesting things happened this past days which I have to keep for myself. I am beggining to feel like an overshare (TMI) 

and I googled - Equality” is defined as the quality of being the same in quantity, value, or status. It is the state of having a balanced social, economic, and political standing among individuals in a society despite differences in race, religion, sex, social and economic status, and culture. 

 

Fairness, on the other hand, is defined as the quality of having an unbiased disposition. It is the characteristic of being just to everyone, of treating them without discrimination or partiality. It is the absence of prejudice. The word “fairness” comes from the Old English word “faeger” which means “beauty” and the Old English adjective “nes” that form a word which means “evenhandedness.”

(Credits to google) 

In short, fair is not equal and equal is not fair.. 

And truly life is relative. Sometimes we keep on comparing based on what we think is fair. And when it comes to Love , wed ask ourselves how much love we should give? Then we ask how much love  she or he needs... what we may think is sufficient may be insufficient for the other person or what may be too little for you maybe too much for another. 

And realizing this makes us more compassionate and understanding...  I wish this coming days are better for everyone... goodnight tweet hearts... xoxo