It's so ironic when there's this other guy who message me wanting me to join him and his girlfriend for a vacation because he said his girlfriend likes me a lot. So I didn't actually know that he's got a girlfriend. I told him, so you told your girlfriend that were talking? She is the coolest! But of course I declined lol! Now I read an article about jealousy and affairs with other people that really it's about being open. Like in that movie Unfaithful, Diane Llane had an affair with a French guy. If the husband Richard Gere would simply accept that she was just going through a phase their marriage wouldn't become that dramatic. The murder would have been prevented. She would just have that one night stand with Frenchie, get home to hubby more learned and do her wifey duties and he should just be cool about it...Im not saying I'm condoning affairs - I'm jealous myself but I guess I am more open minded about these things now more than ever. told ya, my heading in tinder in case I ever use it would be- im here for research.. Talk about your interest, and the things you are passionate about - it's all fair game...But really, you still learn a thing or two about other people. And humanity, choices and relationships is an interesting thing to be discovered and explored . 
