Jealousy is a lonely word

 Call me silly but I would write about stuff that are kind of personal. ( A little TMI ) So this girl who claimed she is the girlfriend of this guy I used to see texted me using his number verbally abusing me calling me a silly slut. A very jealous streak. So I told her, hey chill I'm not doing anything to him.  I did not anymore tease her or anything out of respect and you know I don't subscribe to slut shaming.. Lol! I don't blame her  because this guys really hot. And he's kind of commitment phobic , maybe his still playing the game (his got the making of a fuck boy starter kit) lol! But well he's got redeeming qualities..(to be really fair) 

It's so ironic when there's this  other guy who message me wanting me to join him and his girlfriend for a vacation because he said his girlfriend likes me a lot.  So I didn't actually know that he's got a girlfriend. I told him, so you told your girlfriend that were talking? She is the coolest! But of course I declined lol!  Now I read an article about jealousy and affairs with other people that really it's about being open. Like in that movie Unfaithful,  Diane Llane  had an affair with a French guy. If the  husband Richard Gere would simply accept that she was just going through a phase their marriage wouldn't become that dramatic.  The murder would have been prevented. She would just have that one night stand with Frenchie, get home to hubby more learned and do her wifey duties and he should just be cool about it...Im not saying I'm condoning affairs - I'm jealous myself but I guess I am more open minded about these things now more than ever.  told ya, my heading in tinder in case I ever use it would be- im here for research.. Talk about your interest, and the things you are passionate about - it's all fair game...But really, you still learn a thing or two about other people. And humanity, choices and relationships is an interesting thing to be discovered and explored .