Tick tock !

It's when you meet people your age - the grade school or high school batch mate that you would realize your real age...Because most of them are married, some aren't anymore and most have kids. It's when these well meaning people worry about the state of your affairs - like when you would settle down and have kids yourself.. These friends talk about the real life - like buying houses, having a biz, sending kids to school - the works!..But I'm saying this in a good way. And since I am single I have less responsibility - in fact I don't have to worry about a lot of stuff but then i would assure myself, just because I am single doesn't make me less responsible because I felt responsible for myself and my parents my dog..I pay most of the bill and my being single is not for lack of trying, or lack of opportunity. There's just some factors that did not lead to that end or perhaps not yet.. Maybe, I'll settle down, become a single parent or there's also the option of preserving the egg for future use... That's the beauty of technology because women like us are given more options....For now, I won't feel guilty if I still listen to these pop and techno music, if I still wear the latest trend like my growing collection of wedge sneakers- for liking Rihanna, Rita Ora and Leighton Meester or watching Gossip Girl.I still go out and have younger set of friends from work and because I don't feel old doesn't make me less responsible... What can I do if I'm "cool"... I will get there God willing and I will be the coolest Lola if ever! Kidding...